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Complete Family ServicesDr. Corinne Hickson Barez, PhD
Divorce & family transitions

Steady support through the changes that change a family.

Divorce, blended families, relocation, co-parenting. These transitions reshape a family's emotional landscape. Therapy provides the structure, perspective, and support that helps everyone in the family move forward with clarity and resilience.

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The emotional reality

What family transitions look like emotionally.

From the outside, a family transition has a timeline: the separation happens, the papers are signed, the new household is established. But emotionally, the process is rarely that neat. Grief, anger, relief, guilt, and uncertainty often show up simultaneously — and they show up differently for each family member.

Children may not have the language for what they're feeling, so it comes out in behavior: regression, withdrawal, acting out, school problems. Parents are managing their own emotional process while trying to hold everything together for their kids. And extended family, new partners, and shifting routines add layers of complexity that no one quite anticipated.

Therapy provides a space where each family member's experience is taken seriously, where the emotions are named and normalized, and where practical strategies replace the guesswork. Dr. Hickson Barez's work with families in transition draws on her deep understanding of child development, attachment, and the family court system.

For children

Helping children make sense of what's happening.

Children experience divorce through a developmental lens. Preschoolers may regress and become clingy, convinced the divorce is their fault. Elementary-age children often feel caught between parents, carrying loyalty conflicts they can't articulate. Preteens may express their pain through anger, while teenagers may pull away entirely or take on a premature caretaking role.

Therapy gives children a space to process these feelings at their own pace and in their own language: through play for younger children, through conversation for older ones. The goal is not to make the divorce “okay” but to help your child develop the coping skills, emotional vocabulary, and sense of security they need to move through this chapter and come out whole on the other side.

For parents

Navigating your own transition while parenting through it.

Parents going through a divorce face a unique challenge: they are managing their own grief, anger, and uncertainty while simultaneously trying to be emotionally present and stable for their children. The pressure to “keep it together” can lead to burnout, decision fatigue, and a sense of isolation.

Individual therapy gives parents a confidential space to process their own experience, separate from their role as a parent, while also developing strategies for how to talk to their children about the divorce, how to manage co-parenting communication, and how to make the decisions that will shape their family's next chapter. Dr. Hickson Barez also offers parent consultation as a focused service for parents who want guidance without entering individual therapy.

Blended families

When two families become one.

Blended families bring together different histories, parenting styles, attachment patterns, and expectations. The adjustment period is almost always longer than anyone anticipates. Stepparents wonder how much authority they should assert. Children may feel displaced, protective of their biological parent, or caught in loyalty conflicts. Siblings and stepsiblings navigate new dynamics with no shared history to draw from.

Therapy for blended families addresses these dynamics directly: clarifying roles, setting boundaries that everyone can live with, building new rituals and connections, and helping each family member grieve the original family structure while investing in the new one. We work with different combinations of family members depending on what the situation requires. Sometimes that means the full household, sometimes subgroups, sometimes individuals.

Co-parenting

Building a co-parenting relationship that works for your children.

Effective co-parenting requires separating the marital relationship from the parenting relationship, a task that is simple in concept and extraordinarily difficult in practice, especially when emotions are still raw. Therapy can help both parents develop communication strategies that reduce conflict, establish consistent boundaries across households, and keep the children's needs at the center of every decision.

When co-parenting challenges become entrenched or escalate into the court system, Dr. Hickson Barez's forensic background becomes especially relevant. She understands how family court processes intersect with therapeutic goals and can help families navigate both systems effectively. For cases involving significant parent-child relationship disruption, she also offers reunification therapy as a specialized service.

Complete Family Services was able to keep my family communicating during one of the most difficult chapters of our lives. Dr. Hickson Barez provided clarity when everything felt overwhelming.

Client · Rancho Palos Verdes
Frequently asked

Questions about divorce & family transitions.

When should our family seek professional help during a divorce or transition?+
The short answer: earlier than you think. Many families wait until a crisis. A child's behavior escalates, communication completely breaks down, or the emotional toll becomes unmanageable. But therapy is most effective when it begins before patterns become entrenched. If your family is going through a divorce, a major move, a blended family transition, or any significant restructuring, professional support can help everyone adjust more smoothly. You don't need to be in crisis. A single consultation can help you determine what level of support, if any, would be useful.
How do children of different ages react to divorce?+
Children's reactions to divorce vary significantly by developmental stage. Preschoolers may regress (bedwetting, clinginess, sleep disruptions) and often believe the divorce is their fault. Elementary-age children tend to feel sadness and loyalty conflicts, sometimes trying to reconcile their parents. Preteens may express anger and take sides. Teenagers often pull away, act out, or take on a caretaking role they're not ready for. Understanding these age-specific reactions helps parents respond with the right kind of support rather than misreading the behavior.
Can therapy help with co-parenting challenges?+
Yes, and it's one of the most common reasons parents come to us. Effective co-parenting after a divorce requires clear communication, consistent boundaries, and the ability to separate the parenting relationship from the marital one. That is far easier said than done. Therapy can help parents develop a workable co-parenting framework, reduce conflict in front of the children, and address specific flashpoints like schedule transitions, holiday planning, and differing parenting styles. When both parents are willing to participate, the outcomes improve significantly.
How does therapy support blended families?+
Blended families bring together different histories, attachment patterns, parenting styles, and expectations. The adjustment period is almost always longer and more complicated than families anticipate. Therapy helps blended families navigate role confusion (especially for stepparents), sibling dynamics, loyalty conflicts, boundary setting, and the grief children may carry from the original family structure. We work with the whole family system, meeting with different combinations of family members depending on what the situation requires.
How long does therapy for divorce adjustment typically last?+
It depends on the complexity of the situation and how each family member is adjusting. Some families benefit from a focused 8–12 session course during the acute transition period. Others need longer support, especially when the divorce involves high conflict, relocation, or ongoing legal proceedings. Children sometimes return to therapy at later developmental stages as they process the divorce differently — a six-year-old who adjusted well initially may need support again as a teenager. We follow each family's pace and adjust the plan as circumstances evolve.
What is the connection between divorce therapy and reunification therapy?+
Divorce adjustment therapy helps families cope with the emotional and practical upheaval of separation. Reunification therapy is a more specialized process used when a parent-child relationship has become significantly disrupted, often due to high-conflict custody situations, parental alienation dynamics, or court-ordered separation. Some families begin with divorce adjustment support and later transition into reunification work if the parent-child relationship requires focused repair. Dr. Hickson Barez offers both services and can help families determine which approach fits their current needs.
Dr. Corinne Hickson Barez, PhD

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Dr. Corinne Hickson Barez, PhD

Licensed Clinical Psychologist (PSY17257) with 30+ years of experience. Founder of Complete Family Services, Inc. in Torrance, California. More than 20 years of experience as a court-appointed 730 Child Custody Evaluator. Author of the forthcoming Life's Lessonschildren's book series. Co-author of a chapter in The Handbook of Juvenile Forensic Psychology.

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